wow this seems horrible for you. What I did when I brought Pixie home was I kept her in the ex-pen and only let daisy sniff from the outside the first few days. Then I started letting daisy sniff Pixie only when I was holding Pixie and I would talk to Daisy in a soft voice and say that is nice Daisy. I did not let them get to acquainted without the best supervision until Pixie had been with us for a month.
If Daisy seemed to show any signs of aggression I would scold her and let her know that it was not acceptable and then I would pet her and love on her.
Pixie has been with us for 2 months now and they are buddies. So my only advice is take it slow. I hope things get better bc I know it can be stressful!
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