I know this is unbelievably hard for you, as most of us have been there before. I have always viewed it this way, that if it was meant to be, then you will find each other again. However, if it was not, God is pushing you in another direction for a good reason,,,, and that reason is usually to save you heartache in the long run. Think of it this way, would you rather have it happen now, or when you are pregnant with your second? I have known too many where it has been the latter. Give yourself time to grieve, and allow yourself the time you need. Best wishes , stay strong |