jacksonsmom - i would LOVE any tips you could come up with so i didn't have to part with my little girl! here's the scenario...
i got her brand new, and now she's 2 1/2. I met my husband AFTER I'd had her, and we didn't get married/move in together until this January. Any time he'd come to visit she was just fine with him. But now, since moving in together, she's developed, what i think is, fierce jealousy. If he tries to go near her runs away, or simply pees all over. She's totally calm and content when he's away at work, and the minute he walks in the door she become totally neurotic, following me, hiding behind me or under the kitchen table, shivering etc. Even if i'm not in the house, and he tries to let her out to go to the bathroom, she'll pee in her bag the minute he comes close to her. I shoudl mention, he has a little dog (mini schnauzer) of his own, and adores her and couldn't hurt a flea. I've tried getting them to bond by going for walks together, but that keeps ending in catastrophy (she runs away, or simply won't walk). So that's my story. It breaks my heart to even THINK of giving her away, but I believe my marriage needs to come first, and even if my husband can learn to just ignore her, which he promised to do, it's stressful to me to know that I can't even have him come to home to let her out if I have a long day at work.
Any tips? I'm desparate!
