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Old 11-18-2009, 01:28 PM   #114
Mardelin
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Originally Posted by Micksbabyboo View Post
this was the second private PM i received....I have two dogs... Which DID NOT HELP ME HEAL i did not get them until i was okay on my own. I could not take another responsibility on after all i needed was time by myself to think and heal myself. I was almost killed by my ex, i had all ribs fractured... i remeber staying in bed without being able to get out for days do to the pain and no medical care..cause how would they take me to medical care when he was the one who caused all my injuries... and a dog wouldnt of made me getting out of the situation better, it wouldn't of let me focus on me.. im not saying that it wont work in time.. im just saying that i dont find it to be what most women who have been abused and have problems need.

Women like me who have been abused in the past, what we need a a good friend to hear us not a dog... I got my dog when i was good, when i was finally happy again and in that my dogs have given me the biggest joy because i was happy before them and now with them and my husband my life in complete. but i do stress that this was AFTER i felt better about what i had been through, not before. And i have said it before i feel strongly about this.
I've reported both her PMs to admin....as a form of harrassement.
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