I wasted 10+ years in a marriage that was not working from the start and that held nothing but empty promises just so I could have the "perfect" family. I regret most of the 10 years I wasted on him and none of his promises panned out.
I strongly suggest if your guy after 2 years isnt willing to even consider marriage and a baby and it truly is something you want that you get out now before you waste another second...
I look back at the lost 10 years and wish I would have NEVER wasted the 10 years on promises and no actions.
I have now found a great guy who isnt perfect but he is perfect for me. We have a good relationship and a great family.
PS as far as work goes decided what you can handle and for how long and then follow your own guidlines...I work for a company that has changed my position to something I do not enjoy as much but the thought of starting over somewhere else is even less appealing to me right this second than sticking with my current position.
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~Angela
Last edited by Princessangela3; 11-07-2009 at 08:50 AM.
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