Try not to stress out too much because I think all kids that can do this will do it sooner or later especially a girl with her daddy!! She will be back when she gets it out of her system and it might be the best thing that ever happened to both of you!! Don't fight with her and tell her "you love her no matter where she lives" ... she will be back before you know it!! Don't let her have "the best of both worlds" while she is there though ... if she wants to be with her dad let her have the "bad with the good" there too!! Let her dad take care of it all for a little bit!! The worst thing you can do right now is over react!! Just think of it that "it could be a whole lot worse" at least she is with her dad and not missing somewhere or something horrible!! This too will pass. Be good to yourself right now!! |