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Old 10-19-2009, 12:22 PM   #102
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Originally Posted by Bianca View Post
So your not getting it, are you?
I don't mean to post or get nasty , but I don't like , lets say your approach to this thread. I am telling you and this coming from a person who was born and bred in New York(I am very street smart) that 4yrs ago I didn't know about puppy-mills or where these cute little babies came from, just knew I wanted one . After I joined a forum and was told the truth I actually cried. Then anger set in , then I blamed myself for not knowing. I was really defensive and would ignore a lot of posters. But secretly I was reading the forums on puppy-mills byb's and brokers and I GOT IT!
Once I knew I set myself straight and tried to educate anyone who would listen and if I stopped even one person from buying from a pet-store I felt like I had redeemed myself .
You say "more to the point , everyone acts all shocked and surprised", thats exactly how I was and felt.
Don't be like that, give people the benefit of the doubt, try to see the other side of not knowing . If you try to understand others with some compassion and not this well you should have known this or that attitude you will be a better person and people are more receptive to niceness than criticism .
I hope one day you do get it and post nicer about this subject . It's not that people have their head in a bubble it's that some time certain issues in life are not paid attention to and when you want that little adorable puppy , you don't research enough and your emotions get the best of you.
Be nice , be helpful , life is just to short not to be...
I just have to chime in here and say that I am from NY also, I would like to believe that I am street smart (I earned an MBA too lol) and I fully admit to NOT knowing about puppy mills until I was getting Maxi.. I just researched all different breeds, fell in love with the yorkies and knew that their temperament and our home environment would match, so next I went about looking for one. When someone wants a puppy where do they go? To the pet store! A lot of people don’t know about puppy mills ... and just to add... I read the paper every day and I hardly ever see articles pertaining to puppy mills or mistreatment of animals. And if there is such articles then they are in the tiniest corner of the back of the paper - trust me they don’t get much attention unless you are looking for them. BYW, I have facebook, MySpace and twitter and I have never seen ANY of my friends on those sites posts anything about puppy mills, BYB, gas chambers or kill shelters.. so just goes to show you that many people are wrapped up in their own lives (not a bad thing) to go out and find this kind of info. You only really care once you know about it and you only really know about these issues when you need too (like owning a puppy). JMHO
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