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  I know that this is frustrating, but please no rubbing her nose in the potty;  unless you have caught her in the act, she simply won't connect the dots anyway.  You don't want to teach her that you can be overly punitive......just firm, structured and consistent.  Redirect the bad stuff, reward the good.
 If Zoey keeps getting on the bed, perhaps you could purchase some of those little bumper gates that toddlers use to keep from rolling off in the night?
 
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