Thank you guys for all your help and ideas! I really want her to feel happy here all the time, not just while the hubby is at work! lol She's following me around all day, but after he gets home... she keeps her space if we're on the same couch. If I move over to the love seat, however, she's right there. I'm also starting to think she's a Silkie Terrier, not that it matters, but she is longer than tall, she's 9lbs but not chubby at all, and her nose is kinda shorter and stubbier than alot of pics I've seen on here. BUT her hair is sssooooooo soft

I could just cuddle with her for hours!
I will talk to the vet about having her spayed (one way or the other she def will be), but thats the problem, I do feel bad

no matter what choice I think about. 1) I'm going to send her in for an abortion and kill a litter of puppies ( I'm sorry but thats how I look at it ), plus put her at an extra risk having the spay done while shes preggo or 2) I'm going to bring another litter of mixed breed puppies into the world, not really knowing for sure what will happen to them once there're rehomed, plus put her at risk delivering.