JeanieK, if i could please.
This is my honest and heartfelt advise to you. I mean no disrespect or rudeness towards you in saying this, but perhaps you should let this and other arguments go and simply stop responding when someone corrects your comments and opinions. It seems that on many instances you have been corrected (whether in a nice or not nice way that doesn't matter) and in those corrections i'm seeing a pattern of frustration, retaliation and arguing going on. It has become obvious to me and i'm sure others that you do not give up on battles with other members too easily and while you claim you admit you are wrong, I'm not seeing that you actually ever fully admit fault to anything and still repeat your opinions over and over without those posts moving the discussion forward or out of an argument. I personally feel that it might be in your best interest to stop the arguing before it gets started by not responding to another poster if they do try to correct you or tell you their opinions. You are perfectly entitled to say what you want. and they are all perfectly entitled to correct you or say that they do not agree with your opinions. Let's leave it at that and not combat every person who disagrees with you with a long repetitive argument. They understand what you meant and what your comments are the first time and don't need them repeated sevearl times if they choose to disagree with you.
I hope you can read this and take it for the kind, gentle advice that i mean for it to be given. It took TOY commenting much like this to me before i realized i was causing myself most of my own troubles. I hope this helps you to feel safe to post whatever you like here and understand that those same rules apply to all other members. |