Hmm, wow, what a tough situation. I'm not really even sure what to tell you except what was already posted above. A lot of times dogs go through weird things when another pack member dies... I've seen it on both Dog Whisperer and It's Me or the Dog and it's generally them trying to take over. Maybe even if you thought Twinkle was more of the "alpha" one, maybe she looked up to Kaddie still, and is still confused as to where one of her leader went? Honestly, I think now is the time for you to become the true leader! The minute she pulls that snapping stuff again, she's either put down off the furniture, and completely ignored. I know you said when you corrected it, she snapped back, so maybe ignoring is key with her. Let her know she will not get attention for acting as so. Do not put up with it, for sure, which it sounds like you're not. I know dogs are highly affected by energy as well so maybe she's been sensing your sadness over Kaddie? Eh, I'm sorry I can't really give you better advice. I wish you well! Maybe hiring a trainer would be best. |