been there done that.....have the papers to prove it
Things will get better....or at least end up the way they are supposed to (sorry...I'm no help)
If it makes you feel better I just called my Mom and heard my ex husband's voice in the background

He's helping DD with a project.....but STILL!!!! I'm in FL and they are in MI......what can I do?

is all I can think of at the moment!!!!