Society puts sooooo much pressure on these little girls. They also put pressure on each other. i listen to them talk on the bus when I bring my son home and it's amazing. I don't know what I would do if I had a girl, what do you say to them? how do you tell them they are ok, just the way they are? Your daughter is so lovely. Diet, schmiet. It's so early for something like this. Good luck!!! I don't know what else to say.