I forgot to mention the ages of dogs...
Jack is 2yrs.
Tulkus is 5 yrs.
Angel is 7yrs.
All 3 are fixed. Oh, and my DH does like Jack. He doesn't show Jack the most attention, but also doesn't "discipline" him very much either. The DH is just afraid of getting attached to my sisters dog and then having to give him back to my sister in December.
too cute, huh?
Anyway, just more info I thought might help with advice givers.
Thanks again!