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Originally Posted by ladyjane  Depends on what you call an attack.
I am going to go back to what I said way back:
And...as far as I am concerned, no one attacked anyone. She got the truth. If she did not want the truth, she should not have brought up a topic she HAD to know would bring what it did!
If she TRULY wanted advice about submissive piddling, she would simply have asked for that.
Don't go now trying to accuse people of running her off....she heard what she NEEDED to hear. Breeding either of those yorkies would be WRONG...no really sweetie sweetie sugar pie way to say that. And to sit and sweet talk her while she bred them would have been criminal imo.
People on this board have exercised almost too much patience at times if you ask me..of course you did not, but I will say it anyway! |
I agree -- she was never attacked. People suggested she rehome a dog she readily divulged that she did not like, had not bonded with, and would rehome as soon as she bred her once to a dog that should never be bred. No one called her names or even said what they thought of someone in this situation. They merely gave their opinion of what to do next. Several also gave suggestions to help with the stress incontinence problem. But I thought it remained very civil.
No one should expect that people are going to sugarcoat every opinion. It is hard to say, "Well since you are such a nice person and doing everything so very well on your own accord, why don't you just go ahead and find a new home for that little girl of yours now? Okay?" No -- it won't come out that way, it will come out like, "Since you do not like her, have not bonded, and consider her to have a submissive personality, why not rehome her now instead of breeding her with a dog that should never reproduce and then getting rid of her and a bunch of puppies that may have all sorts of problems?" Sure that sounds a little rough if you are the person getting it but it SHOULD! People need to KNOW when they are messing up. In this case, continuing as posted, would have been messing up. People who know better have a responsibility to say so --just as they did without namecalling or nasty judgemental rhetoric. I thought it was well done.