My girl is very submissive and rolls one her back constantly but her piddling stopped pretty soon. She was scared and really desperately LOVES attention.
She's turned out to be a great little thing and I love her to pieces. I'm a cuddler and I love to nuture. If you aren't looking to nuture a dog, then her personality will never be to your liking. Her personality could be passed on to any puppies and then if your family is like you and not nuturing to the dog, what's the point?
Please stop and think