OMG!! Megan I think that was his father!!! FOR SURE! Was your DH really freaked out about it??
Here is my exp
My Dad passed away in 02. I was really really close to my Dad, closer to him than my Mom. We would hang out all the time!! Anyways of course after he passed I went thru really hard times, I was depressed..to even thinking that he wasnt really gone, to not eating, then parting a lot!! Soo many different emotions. I was having a hard time more than my Mom and my Brother.
About 6 months later, (I was still living at my parents and so was my brother.)
I was sleeping.. all of a sudden I just woke up, I looked to the side of me and I saw my Dad!!

He was clear as day too!! Like you always see those "ghost stories" of the spritis and things and thats not what they look like lol!! His body was there but it was really foggy and white, and his face, I saw his face, his eyes, mouth, but it was like kinda when you are looking underwater..like that but white and foggy as well.. I thought to myself am I sleeping?? So I pinched my self! And I felt it!! Then I even sat up and I just sat there I had no idea what to say or what to do for that matter..
I said " Dad is that you" he didn't answer.....I said " Dad why did you leave me, I miss you so much" he didn't answer.. Then he came closer to me and put his hand on my face and said " I love you, everything will be ok" and that was it...then he left and the CRAZY thing is I saw him go into my brothers room!!!
I need to go back a little.. When he touched me it felt so good, as soon as he touch me I felt warm and peaceful. His touch brought this calming sensation over me. (When he was alive he would always touch my face and tell me he loved me so I think thats why he did that)
When he talked to me, its not like I saw his mouth moving..it was like he was thinking it and I heard him or something.. I dont know I dont even know how to explain it lol
Then the next morning I asked my brother "did you dream about dad last night" and he said no and looked at me like I was a nut job lol
I told my mom like a couple months later... and she said that I was very lucky to have exp that, she said that he knew I needed it and thats why he did it
Well thats my story..