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kerrylatrece · 09-13-2009, 01:13 PM

Wow! There is no where I know of than a forum of any kind where you can go to get a big old dose of judgment.

Not one of you have addressed the issues I asked about.
I asked if there is any help for the piddling and submissive behavior.

She is not submissive because I'm not crazy about her. I'm not crazy about her because she is submissive.

I wanted a playmate and a mate for my young male. I have members of my family that like my male and have asked me to have puppies from him. So I went looking for a female.

I looked at several places. I found this lady who is going out of the breeding business. Her place was clean but her dogs are not in the house all of the time, they are let in and out alternately. She had 3 or 4 bitches and 2 males. They were socialized. She kept good records and had documentation of their health care. I took this female to the vet as soon as I got her home and she checked out fine.

This female has had puppies ONCE. So I figured she was breedable. She was the size and coloring I was looking for. I notice that she cowered a little when we made our 1st visit, but this is not unusual when there are strangers around.

She is well house broken, but when you reach for her, sometimes even when she sees it coming, she piddles. If she gets excited, because you have come in the door you only went out of 2 min. ago, she piddles.

I think her submissive behavior is because she was raised in a kennel with many females. I am sure there is a pecking order and she was obviously on bottom.

I am taking good care of her. I give her love and affection but that bond is just not there. I feel bad that it is not there and hope that someone will be able have it with her because she deserves a soul mate.

It would be great if she were never stressed. It would be great if I were never stressed either. I have many stresses in my life. Do you know what they are? Do you care? You have never met me or my dog, but you have all kinds of compassion for her. Want to shoulder any of my problems? Some of you really make me laugh.

She has NOT been passed from home to home. I am her second owner. I will not be giving her to just any old person who says they might take the dog.

Twalla, Really? She will Never get passed that I don't like her? I give her more one on one affection than she probably ever had. You believe she is stressed now from actions I may take in the future? Wow. That is some perceptive animal. Think I'll keep her and sell tickets instead.

I have a dog because it makes me happy, it pleases me, it gives me pleasant companionship. I am just not getting the warm fuzzies from this dog. I have hand raised all the dogs I have had previously and they lived happy lives and died of old age. I am not a fickel owner.

Monolos Mom, after I am through 'using' her, bring $300 and you can pick her up. I'm serious.... or did you just think you could get a free dog?

If anyone has any constructive advise concerning the piddling or submissive behavior, I would love to read it.
The rest of the crap you can keep to yourselves. Write it out, get it of your self righteous chest then just hit delete.[IMG]file:///C:/DOCUME%7E1/Me/LOCALS%7E1/Temp/moz-screenshot.jpg[/IMG]

09-13-2009, 01:13 PM	#18
kerrylatrece Yorkie Yakker Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: xxx Posts: 36	re: Stress Piddler Wow! There is no where I know of than a forum of any kind where you can go to get a big old dose of judgment. Not one of you have addressed the issues I asked about. I asked if there is any help for the piddling and submissive behavior. She is not submissive because I'm not crazy about her. I'm not crazy about her because she is submissive. I wanted a playmate and a mate for my young male. I have members of my family that like my male and have asked me to have puppies from him. So I went looking for a female. I looked at several places. I found this lady who is going out of the breeding business. Her place was clean but her dogs are not in the house all of the time, they are let in and out alternately. She had 3 or 4 bitches and 2 males. They were socialized. She kept good records and had documentation of their health care. I took this female to the vet as soon as I got her home and she checked out fine. This female has had puppies ONCE. So I figured she was breedable. She was the size and coloring I was looking for. I notice that she cowered a little when we made our 1st visit, but this is not unusual when there are strangers around. She is well house broken, but when you reach for her, sometimes even when she sees it coming, she piddles. If she gets excited, because you have come in the door you only went out of 2 min. ago, she piddles. I think her submissive behavior is because she was raised in a kennel with many females. I am sure there is a pecking order and she was obviously on bottom. I am taking good care of her. I give her love and affection but that bond is just not there. I feel bad that it is not there and hope that someone will be able have it with her because she deserves a soul mate. It would be great if she were never stressed. It would be great if I were never stressed either. I have many stresses in my life. Do you know what they are? Do you care? You have never met me or my dog, but you have all kinds of compassion for her. Want to shoulder any of my problems? Some of you really make me laugh. She has NOT been passed from home to home. I am her second owner. I will not be giving her to just any old person who says they might take the dog. Twalla, Really? She will Never get passed that I don't like her? I give her more one on one affection than she probably ever had. You believe she is stressed now from actions I may take in the future? Wow. That is some perceptive animal. Think I'll keep her and sell tickets instead. I have a dog because it makes me happy, it pleases me, it gives me pleasant companionship. I am just not getting the warm fuzzies from this dog. I have hand raised all the dogs I have had previously and they lived happy lives and died of old age. I am not a fickel owner. Monolos Mom, after I am through 'using' her, bring $300 and you can pick her up. I'm serious.... or did you just think you could get a free dog? If anyone has any constructive advise concerning the piddling or submissive behavior, I would love to read it. The rest of the crap you can keep to yourselves. Write it out, get it of your self righteous chest then just hit delete.[IMG]file:///C:/DOCUME%7E1/Me/LOCALS%7E1/Temp/moz-screenshot.jpg[/IMG]