I have been waiting for a post like this! Very well said! I do not post often...but I am on here reading threads daily. I am still learning and forming my own thoughts/ways from my own experiences with my Yorkie girl and from this forum. I feel that newbies should be able to ask questions but should remain respectful and LISTEN to advice that they ask for! I have been shocked by some other people that have joined here and have only shown disrespect and ignorance! I'm glad that people like you and many others on here have stayed strong. Again, great post!