Thank you for your answers and your all right there are rules but its me who does not sticking to them haha. I always say i dont want bailey up on the couch and i try to stick to it but i always give in and when he jumps up just let him snuggle into me. My bf does not mind bailey when he is snuggling me but when he is on the couch and not next to me he tells him to get down... which i should do really but bailey is looking at me as if to say ''whos this'' lol. My bf is lovely with bailey and loves to play and walk him but i just think bailey is confused by who he is and why he is now in our home. Bailey has now become really clingy to me and if he isn't snuggling into me he is asleep on my feet or following me around the house and i feel like he is upset with me for bringing someone else into our home. Is there anything i can do to make him feel better... without gettin rid of my bf which someone had said HAHA altho maybe i maybe saying different after a little longer living with him hehe. I dont want you all thinking my bf has moved in and started telling me the rules of the house or that he is mean to bailey coz he really is sooo nice and is trying everything possible to make bailey feel at ease. Its just i want my bf become a pack leader too but i dont know how to do this without upsetting bailey if that makes sense... ok i'm gonna stop blabbing on now
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