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					Originally Posted by kjcmsw  need/ want  -- symantics.  
 and to the other responder, yes I did go "on and on" didn't I? For that I am sorry --that wasn't my intention, I've found one has to be so careful with their wording, lest someone pick it apart, I was probably trying to cover it all in one breath. My opinion is still that anyone who wants to breed and asks an intelligent question should receive an intelligent response that's all. I find it odd that rather than answering the question new posters are often given a lecture of opinion with nary the answer to be found that's all. Thanks for reading my long post, I'll try for shorter in the future.
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  That was a little kidding and not the point of my post to you -- I am the queen of the long post and would never really tell anyone to shorten their posts!   
I still disagree.  I believe if someone is posting that they plan to do something another feels is morally wrong, they have a responsibility to tell them.  When someone OBVIOUSLY does not know all they need to know to breed, then another that has more information has a moral obligation to help them learn -- at least point them in the right direction.  I did not have all of the same information or opinions when I first came here.  Thankfully, others let me know how they felt, passed on lessons they had learned, and did not stop just at answering my basic question.  They CARED ENOUGH to really educate!  No one is telling her she HAS to follow the advice.  We all know anyone is free to do as they please.  But it would not be very responsible of us to stand by without a word when someone is doing what we know in our hearts is wrong.