She must be a distant cousin of my Ben! He does the same thing. I have grown his hair out and now it is perfect for a topknot. But he will not leav it in. Any bow is history within minutes and he will rub and work at the bands until he has it all knotted up and will eventually get the band out too! He would look so nice, if he could just leave it in. But, I think I need to take him back to the groomers and just go back to the little visor I had before and go ahead and cut the hair around his nose and eyes. Hate to admit it, but I think he has won.