Update! We gave Zach a drug test today, he passed. BUT he still doesn't have a job. I think he's starting to realize that i'm not going to tolerate drinking in my house. And for everyone that says just leave my husband I can't just up and get a divorce. I love him more than anything in the world. We have an amazing relationship I just think he is too much of a softy. We've been together since I was 15 we've made it through money troubles, 2 deployments, 1 brother we've made it through so much I know we will make it through this. I was considering getting deployed to get away from it for a while and I think he realized I was serious about that too. Things are going a little better at home and hopefully will stay that way. Zach knows that if he slips up he will be out of here faster than he can say "i'm sorry". |