Oh I'm sorry to hear that. If you know you have been a good mother and tried your best, then that's all you can do. he is 21 and an adult, and let's face it 21 yr olds think they know everything. Hmm, come to think of it, so do teenagers. Anyway, yes he has to make his own mistakes and learn. Same with me, i saw my older sister always have problems with money, racking up her credit cards, crying to daddy when she needed to get bailed out. But when it came to my time, I got a credit card with a $5000 limit, and guess what i did? Go shopping, take my friends out to dinner, stupid stuff. I just barely finished paying off my cards from when I was in college. I'm almost 30 now.
Just try not the strain the relationship with your son so that IF he ever does need your help, he won't be ashamed to admit to you that you were right and he was wrong and that he needs your help.
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