[nana911]

go with a complete mix of both. Have the lady stay and have your brother check. That way the lady doesn't have complete rein of your house with knowing that someone is keeping on eye on her as well. The babies see a familiar face everyday, but have a skincaretaker all night. I've seen these situations go very bad, just because someone 'knows' someone and they've had 'good' reviews, doesn't mean you won't get burned. Please remove and lock up, at your brother's house, all valuables, papers, jewelry, etc... anything that you do not want missing. Do not leave anything out with personal information such as social security numbers, account numbers, anything that can be important to you. Long late nights lead to boredom, leads to snooping, leads to sticky fingers. You will have allowed her into your residence, it will be a civil matter not criminal. So protect yourself. So, use her to watch your babies and use your brother to watch her and have a good time!!!!