Thanks again everyone, I'm so glad I can come here and get good advice. Things have been ok this week only a little blip over the weekend. He still hasn't gotten a job, which i'm not sure if it's his fault or the economy's, but I asked if he was going to be getting a job anytime soon so he could help pay for all the food he eats (he eats SOOOO much) and he said he's applied to a bunch and I asked if he followed up and he said to some of them. Then my DH said "he (Zach) doesn't want to be here anymore than we want him here" and Zach said yeah if I had the money I would be out partying and drinking. I told him "then you aren't welcome in my house" and walked away. Billy (the DH) talked to him about it and told him it was unacceptable and things have been ok since then. I know it's only Wed. there is still a bunch of week left. I'm not a very confrotational person and I have the shortest temper in the world so I usually try to talk to the DH instead of Zach as to not blow things out of proportion. He's talked to him about all the issues I bring up but I don't know if he stresses the things I find important. I'm guessing so since Zach has stayed out of my way for the most part. So wish me luck! I'll keep you updated! |