Oh no, you poor women! NO, you are not wrong at all for feeling this way. I agree with the other posts! You should be your husbands priority! Unfortunately, your DH has a extremely dysfunctional family and has a lot to learn about family life. Whether he will ever change is a good guestion and I definately suggest consuling. I would let him know how you are feeling and if he can't put you and your feelings first that your gonna pack up and be gone. But that is me! I would never put up with that. That takes alot of nerve to move someone into your house when you are just married, and I think it is soooo wrong to have a brother living in your house with your wife when you aren't there!! All these things that are bothering you are red flags, keep track of them, I hope they start diminishing but if they keep adding up, it is time to kick ass and make yourself happy!
I have been through alot of crap in my first marriage and I got rid of him real quick. I am so glad I can look back and know that at age 20 I stood up for myself and didn't sacrifice my beliefs in what a relationship should be because of his dysfunction and his and his family issues.
I hope everything works out for you. I hope you will keep us posted and come back for any advice you might need. |