I am so sorry that you are having to go thru this. It is never easy when it comes to family. While I had different issues I went thru some family things a couple of years back. Hubby just couldn't understand why I would be upset at things. We fought terribly about a lot of things over it.
Anyhow, sounds like you hubby needs to decide if he's going to continue enabling his family or if he is going to let them "grow up". It's obvious that this family has some severe issues and if your hubby continues to ignore them and how you feel, yes you 2 will not be in a good situation.
Not making any excuses for you DH but I am sure that he feels that he is between a rock and a hard spot, try a different approach with him. He has been dealing with this for a very long time, he may not know what else to do or that he is doing anything wrong. He definitely needs to find an alanon group. My MIL did and it was the best thing for them. Good luck and hugs to you. |