I am sorry that you are going through this. Alcoholism is a difficult disease to deal with.
My suggestion is that you find an Alanon meeting and go! You will meet people who have been through and/or going through what you are. I promise you will feel better after one meeting and want to go more!
No one can advise you what to do in this situation. Further, you really cannot advise your husband.
You have a right to your feelings and you also have a right to set limits! The limits you set should be yours..no one elses and you are not wrong!
I do not believe in doing things because I expect results from another person. I do them because it is what makes me happy! That is basically what you will learn in Alanon.
My best to you...I will pray for all of you. Which is another thing...pray for Zach! I have seen many alcoholics say that the only reason they probably quit was because people prayed for them. |