[URAQT1976]

I totally understand where you are coming from Krystee. And yes, you do have every right to get mad and upset with your sister but at the same time, if this is a normal behavior for she, then something should have told you to expect something like this to happen. I'm not saying that its right, by any means. I have learned that it doesn't help to get mad at someone for being themselves, especially when there thoughtless, selfish, spoiled, and just down right irresponsible with other people's things and feeling because at the end of the day, the only person who ends up getting upset and/or hurt is you. I have gone through crap like this with my family all of me life, now 33 yrs of age, and it's gotten to the point where I've told them that the things that they are doing hurt me cause it seems to me that they don't care about me or my stuff and if you can't or wont change that about yourself then I can't and don't want be around you cause my wishes and feeling aren't important to you. I know its hard and maybe down right mean, especially when its people you love and care about, but if you don't respect yourself then no one will.