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Originally Posted by rebeccag  Just curious, why give advice if you don't care if it's taken? Don't you give advice to help?
Also, I have been on other threads where the OP felt as though advice was a bit too harsh or it personally attacked or insulted them and I didn't agree so I never commented. There are a few comments on here, not constructive criticism or advice, but comments that were totally unnecessary, not helpful, judgemental and based on assumptions. What was the point? I had to ask myself that question a few times....
Also, it just doesn't thrill me at all that there are numerous members on here who feel insulted or hurt from this or previous posts. Not to mention, members fearing asking questions because they don't want to be judged. If I knew how to list each comment like that on one post I would so everyone can see them all lined up. There are people behind their posts and people have feelings. I teach my daughter to watch how she speaks to people so that she doesn't hurt anyone's feelings and she's six.... |
Please read the entire post before quoting me and making a judgement about what I am saying. I was responding to someone else whom I will quote below.
I think you are attacking me...!
I give advice to help....but, if a person cannot use it, hey...no worries. It is only MY opinion. Everyone has an opinion....just like they have the same body parts.
And...I will say it one more time. No one was mean to this OP.
Yes, people are questioning her now .. why? Because she has been saying the same thing for months now and keeps suggesting she is going to get rid of her yorkie. She then does not post again .. she did on this thread after someone said she never responds after her initial post. But take a long look at her responses. Really read them!
I hope this all works out for her...that this yorkie is ok.
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Originally Posted by vlccairo http://www.yorkietalk.com/forums/ima...s/viewpost.gif
Then I will post an opinion. I stand by what I said. I won't say how your answering post made me feel as it could easily be construed as an attack from what I've seen. A good friend of mine posted a fairly benign remark and got banned for life. In the meantime, people who had said much worse continue to go on and on. Many people have said things like if you don't want advice or aren't going to listen to it, then don't ask. How about if you can't take having your advice ignored, don't post it. This is my last word on this site. I'm sorry to leave all my friends, but bye bye. |