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Originally Posted by ladyjane  I don't think many people care if their advice is taken or not. At least I don't. What I think is out of line is when people start suggesting that something they do not want to listen to is negative. |
Just curious, why give advice if you don't care if it's taken? Don't you give advice to help?
Also, I have been on other threads where the OP felt as though advice was a bit too harsh or it personally attacked or insulted them and I didn't agree so I never commented. There are a few comments on here, not constructive criticism or advice, but comments that were totally unnecessary, not helpful, judgemental and based on assumptions. What was the point? I had to ask myself that question a few times....
Also, it just doesn't thrill me at all that there are numerous members on here who feel insulted or hurt from this or previous posts. Not to mention, members fearing asking questions because they don't want to be judged. If I knew how to list each comment like that on one post I would so everyone can see them all lined up. There are people behind their posts and people have feelings. I teach my daughter to watch how she speaks to people so that she doesn't hurt anyone's feelings and she's six....