Know just what you mean. My brother was the only boy after 4 girls and the youngest and he could never doi anything wrong. Even when he stole money from me it would be my fault for leaving it lying around. He never stayed in work for long, even ruined a really well paid job where he worked away from home, he and a couple of collegues got drunk and reaked the common area at the B&B they were staying at.
He never remembers birthdays but my mom still insits we send him one. He only ever used to come to our house to dump his kids off for my mom to look after, it was getting to be 4-5 days a week during the holidays. I finally had enough of comming home from work to spend another 4 hours entertaining his kids, then he'd be borrowing money all the time. So I said enough, now we hardly see them, now theres a surprise- not. |