I'm so sorry. I know how devasting this can be. My sister lost her baby when he was about 28 weeks along. His name is Ryan. She had had multiple miscarriages and when she went past 12 weeks we all thought she was in the clear. The was something wrong with him - too many chromosomes I think. The doctors said he was not compatible with life. It was so sad for all of us but especially for her and her husband. My heart goes out to you. I still include baby Ryan in my nighttime prayers. He's a part of our family and I love him even though we never got to meet. I don't know why these things happen especially when so many people out there are either having abortions or having kids but not taking care of them and then there are people like you or my sister who would make wonderful parents and they have such a hard time. I'm so sorry and wish I had the answers that would make things all better for you! |