[FlDebra]

I know you must feel terrible, but sometimes a match jus tis not meant to be. Thankfully you got her from a good breeder that took her back and hopefully she can find an "only child" home for her. Sometimes no matter what we do, it just does not work out. The only fair thing to all concerned, including Hazel and especially Sophie, was to do as you did and have her go back to the breeder and start again to find a home she will fit in better. Do not feel guilty -- you did all you could to welcome her and give her a loving home. All things happen for a reason. There is someone out there that really needs Hazel and you may have another baby not even born yet that is the perfect match for your family.

Edit to add -- just read your update! Seems it has already worked out as it should and Hazel has a new family. I know that is all you wanted for her and you can now be happy again.