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Originally Posted by dogbert

The lady on Tyra was crying because she wasn't as heavy as she wanted to be. She wants to ride the cart! I can't remember if she was or wanted to be 500 pounds, I'd have to ask our daughter who saw the entire show.
I can't imagine why you would want to be in that state. Sounds like some serious counceling is needed for her. That being said I come from a heavy family, sometimes weight gain is not as easy to control when you have medical issues that cause you to gain treated by drugs that cause you to gain. Especially when you have the family fat gene to start with. I know what it's like to be heavy and treated like crap because of it. So I am careful how I treat heavy people as well. Believe me most heavy people are pretty sad, lonely and depressed before anyone says anything to them or about them that they can hear.

I have been called fat before by ex boyfriends ( I have a wonderful husband now ) and it cut like a knife. I do not think anyone should ever put anyone down because of your looks. That is just cruel. I keep comments like that to myself, there is no reason to be vocal about how someone else looks. BUT, I was overweight because I was lazy. I lost a little weight because I eat better now and exercise but it took hard work. I can see how people are sad and depressed, believe me, I was when I was just 40 lbs overweight. But when laziness is the determining factor is just makes me mad when they act like that lady. yah know??