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Originally Posted by megooego  ..I have tried giving hints to my boyfriend , but it is his mother.. it's not going to be that easy! He even said himself he wishes she wouldn't have came right now but now that she's here.. she seems pretty determined to stay until she is "comfortable" with leaving him (car fixed, finances in order) .. ah give me a break!
The only possible thing that could break her away is her business. She owns a resort (cabins up north) and right now her husband is alone taking care of it. If duty calls though.. she will have to leave! we'll see.. Part of me wants to get her out of my house but another part of me wants us to gain an understanding of each other so we can get along in the future. |
Maybe try to sit her down and tell her just that....that you want to come to an understanding for your bf's sake and peace in your house. I think your BF needs to stand up to the smoking in the house thing though...I had a VERY domineering mother in law and after a huge blow up between her and I and then me ready to leave my husband he finally stood up to her and told her our house our kids our rules dont like it dont stay...she ended up a pretty good mother in law after the sting wore off.....too bad he was an a$$ and now my EX!!!!