[megooego]

Originally Posted by kjcmsw

It's called a restraining order. Have you asked your bf was he allows his mother to treat you that way?

Ha that's kind of how I feel right now! I talked to my boyfriend about it, and he doesn't like that she yelled at me that way.. but he said she's just being a mother to her youngest child, the baby, so she is very defensive and no girl in the world is good enough for him. I guess she acted like this to his old girlfriends. This is ridiculous she needs to get over it, because we have been dating for over 3 years, and we have a house together now so we are committed and it won't be ending anytime soon! I feel so aloine though because I feel like my boyfriend should be defending me more.. He told her "Quit freaking out" but obviously she's not getting the hint.

Nancy1999, thank you for the advice. Because she is planning on staying so long i will probably have to look into getting one of those books just because I don't see how I can stand to live like this for long. I feel like she is holding a grudge against me but honestly i have done nothing to her!.. I really want to confront her and tell her she can't talk to me like this but I don't want to offend her and let this come between us because i truly do love my boyfriend and I want our relationship to last.

Im my opinion she is acting soo immature... yet she always accuses me of being dumb and young.. hey im 18 i am young but i am NOT dumb. She didn't even finish high school but this year I am starting college at the University of Wisconsin on a $30,000 scholarship

..sorry thats just me venting again.