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Originally Posted by RachelandSadie  is there a reason you chose to be so rude here? yes i am tired, i did catch a cold, and it is very frustrating raising a newborn baby puppy. i'm sure if you have ever had to raise one yourself you might actually remember it being hard, challenging and at times you may have been frustrated and needed someone to tell you to hang in there and it will get better...if you would read my last few posts you will see i've had a change of attitude and things are actually going really very smoothly now...i don't understand why you don't seem to recall feeling the same way and offer to encourage me and help me to feel better about it rather than to tear me down and make me feel bad for feeling frustrated. hasn't every single person on this forum been through some form of frustration over their pooch?? i'm sure we all have, it happens, they aren't human babies as much as we'd like to think, they aren't our own flesh and blood that we love and care for in the exact same manner as a child...granted we love them, they are dog babies, and they need us to take care of them, but dogs are not human (Ceasar Milan) not to mention i'm sure 95% of mothers of newborn baby humans feel just as tired, overwhelmed, frustrated and upset that their baby is up crying all night and won't seem to stop...it's not abnormal to vent a little frustration over something like this and to ask for advice on how to help teach a puppy or learn to have more patience. instead of scolding someone for getting a pup maybe you should try encouraging them to be patience and things will get better??? by being rude you only stress people out more and that doesn't help them to feel any less frustrated...
not to mention if someone posted on a baby site about how upset they were and frustrated i'm pretty sure no one would post back with:
for your child's sake i hope you figure this out!!! (which is basically what you have said to me)
i'm a good person and take great care of my dog, GOD FORBID i get a little overwhelmed and frustrated at this new experience and GOD FORBID i might be tired or sick from the cold and rain or sleep deprived and feeling ill, and GOD FORBID i actually seek encouragement and sympathy from people who have been there before me and have advice for how they got through it...
have you forgotten what it feels like to be a new puppy owner? or have you only forgotten your manners? |
I haven't forgotten a thing. I'm alot older than you and I did get up
with a puppy night after night but never came on YT to whine about it.
That's life. Puppies chew on finger's they are not evil their puppies.
I'm not being rude at all only honest. Did you actually think your puppy
would sleep threw the night and not pee or poop in the house? Would not
chew on your finger's daily and whine to be with you at all times?
I'm only responding to those things. I said I would no longer respond
to your threads but this took the cake and here I am.
I apoligize if I came off rude I was only being honest and everyday there
is another post about what seems to be your unhappiness in your new
puppy. It would be nice to see positive posting and your pleasure in
your new puppy. That's my opinion and I'm intitled to it.
Good luck,