I don't have any real advice for you, just wanted to say your not alone. When I came on here for the first time I had almost the same post. You will get lots of good advice on here and will just have to try. Some things work well for my little "demon" and others I can almost see him laughing at me when I try them. My Motley is also a year old and started out sweet and adorable, now I am almost the only one who thinks that...but he is getting better so there is hope.