I know the name of the breeder you dealt with. I wonder who the show breeder is who emailed her to tell her she was being talked about on here. It seems that when there's a thread like this talking about a less than quality breeder, they miraculously appear on here to defend themselves. Makes me a little uncomfortable to know that someone is "tattling" on conversations on here. As for her suing you, in my experience, that's what people cry when they don't have a leg to stand on and are trying to scare someone. Kind of like a bully would do
If you're telling the truth about someone, no lawsuit exists. I really do wish you luck on this - it must be absolutely maddening!!