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  i had a similar feeling when my husband was taking Sadie out to potty, he wasn't holding her well and she was wiggly and he bent over and it looked like he dropped her on the floor,  so i freaked out on him, turns out he was putting her down so he wouldn't drop her, but after that mommy had to tell daddy how to hold the baby...
 now he's doing much better with her...still i feel like a bad mommy even when daddy does the wrong...
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