You aren't doing anything wrong, I am interested in finding a Female that will end up being around 6 lbs. to breed with my male eventually.....yours sound good, but your not interested in shipping (which is real easy by the way). I live in South Carolina and I would'nt be able to drive to pick-up. So it's a dead end? It seems that the ones on the market are all too small 3.5-4 lb. range? My male is almost 6lbs. so I need a Female that's about the same or larger. I did'nt want you to feel discouraged or frustrated! I'm sure they are all adorable and you will find homes for all of them, Good Luck!