I imagine...
but for whatever is worth you can tell her that she can visit anytime, after all you guys are next door neighbors and she can come and visit right?
It may easy on her a bit i think...
Anyways, you are better off passing as selfish now then as "neighbor with a huge big mouth " later... i am sure later on you would not be able to keep your silence... then it could get really bad...
XOXO
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