I have the same prolem with Cali and my Pom, Maya. Cali wants to play and be top dog and Maya is almost 9 and weighs 12 lbs and was never real sweet so I am referree them all day. Maya lives under my bed and Cali just loves to taunt her by walking under there a few inches from her snarling face. I just hope it gets easier as Cali gets older and more laid back(I hope). I can't imagine 3 or more. I have never had 2 at the same time before. I also have Maya who goes outside and cali will only go on the wee wee pads or floor! gotta love them |