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Originally Posted by manolos mom

Let me ask you, How do you feel when you give a gift or do something for someone? Makes you feel pretty darn good. I think doing for others will help with Confidence. A big part of loving ourselves is being Confident. It doesn't matter how many diamonds you wear, the dress, the hair or the makeup, without Confidence you will not glow. For instance, my grandmother lost her home and everything, all memories during Hurricane Hugo. When I saw her she had her one dress and her purse and clutched it in her arms and walk to Fema with her head held high like she was a millionaire. That was Confidence. Now, I want you to look in the mirror and hold your shoulders back and your head up and tell yourself ,You are a strong woman and can overcome anything thrown at you.I tell myself this almost everyday...I find that when I'm down if I do something special for someone it make me feel so much better about myself.

i do that all the time! that is why how people see me is different for how i see myself. thank you!