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Originally Posted by RachelandSadie  i actually didn't see the bottom part where you addressed me for some reason...hmmm...
that sounded a lot less negative when i did see it though,
i try pretty hard not to argue, but i've been relentlessly attacked over my own personal choices and decisions regarding my puppie so i guess i'm getting a little over reactive about it.
i'm just trying to be nice to everyone and respect them, and i wish they'd do the same for me. and yea we're not going up to see my parents even if they did let Sadie come in the house, it's too soon, but i still need the advice about how to get him to love her in the future..he's even said that he thinks dogs shouldn't wear sweaters because it takes away their ability to adapt to the cold, i tried to explain about them not growing the undercoat, but he wanted to argue with me so my mom whispered "drop-it" and i did...must be where i get it huhh??  j/k i really don't like to argue, i just have to defend myself a lot in life, dad and now YT, it's tiring, think i'll go make some food for Sadie with my auntie and see Bailey |
My mother thinks dressing dogs is ridiculous as well and even putting bows in the hair. If I ever mentioned putting clothes on the dog she would simply make some kind of comment like "its a dog not a child". I would just brush it off and say well mine gets cold in the winter and thats what I did, put sweaters on her in the cold weather, but I never dressed her up in the summer time, its really hot here and I'm sure the extra clothes wouldn't work. I think a big thing with parents is, even though you move out they still kinda feel like they are responsible for you and maybe sometimes may not agree with your decisions. It's hard and Ive been on my own for 3 years now. Sometimes my mom tries to tell me what to do but I try to stick up for myself and say well I think I am doing the right thing. I am sure your dad will get over the sweater thing! At least winter is still a ways away!