I'm a mother. grandmother and great-grandmother. If you have your own home and do not depend on your parents to pay your bills.....go for it. Tell your family in a matter-of-fact way and leave it like that. Parents have a way of saying things because they are just that.....parents. Sometimes it is hard for us to keep our mouths shut because we have had YEARS of opening it. Just do your thing and try not to get upset if a little flack comes your way. Try to be patient because they mean well and love you. I find myself putting words in places where they do not belong, so I try to measure the situation before I rant. hehehehe
PS. Your family will LOVE your new baby as soon as they see him/her. Good luck |