I can understand being corrected for words that historically are considered hate words or are demeaning to someone's heritage. I would hope that none of us would remain silent on terminology that is said to hurt or to lessen someone in the world.
However, I cannot understand why words such as
teacup incites such a fervor that it embarrasses or humiliates the speaker/writer especially when they are newcomers or guests.
In my opinion the rudeness of such is much more damaging than someone using the wrong terminology to describe a Yorkie. There is a better way to gently correct someone and lead them to the "jargon" that graces this breed than to embarrass or ridicule.
To the OP...as others before me have also said, do not be distressed about your choice of words. I'm just grateful to see that you did not let it deter you from returning to the board.
Very well said. I agree with you 100%. Thank you.