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If a man wants you, NOTHING can keep him away.
If he doesn't want you, NOTHING can make him stay.
A wise woman would Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your feminine intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache. Also Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be. Slower in having a relationship is better. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy. And If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better. The only person you can control in a relationship is you. Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, Why would he treat you any differently?

Always have your own set of friends separate from his. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up. Never let a man know everything. There is a chance he will use it against you later. You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes only from within. Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are... even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. After all, He is a man, nothing more nothing less. Never let a man define who you are. Above all, NEVER borrow someone else's man.

If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you. All men are NOT dogs. You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two way street. You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary. Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right. Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and your always readily available to him- he takes it for granted. Never move into his mother's house and Never co-sign for a man. Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need!!!


Share this with other ladies..... You'll make someone SMILE, another RETHINK her choices, and another woman PREPARE. They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them.


Now ladies, go and find your real and true prince charming or knight in shining armor... he definitely exists and he's definitely out there... just DON'T EVER GIVE UP until you find him!!!!!